Hi Cheryl,
I suspect the flower - which is out of focus - is not associated with your plant. From what I see I believe your shrub is indeed mingimingi (Leucopogon fasciculatus), a stressed plant because of its colour. If you want an accurate identification please post it to me at the Department of Conservation, Private Bag 68 908, Newton, Auckland 1145. Send a sprig about 10 cm long, dried first please.